The first week of primary school is a significant milestone for both children and parents. We know because our own daughter starts primary school this year. For all of us parents of lockdown babies It’s a time filled with anticipation, excitement and sprinkled with a little bit of nervousness. We’re sure you will be keen for your little one to have a smooth transition from nursery to primary school, which of course will make a big difference in how your child feels about school, setting the tone for a positive educational experience. Below are our top 10 tips to make your child’s first week of primary school a success:
1. Prepare your child emotionally and mentally
- Talk About What to Expect: Discuss your child’s school routine, what kind of activities they might do and explain to them what their first week may look like. Make it sound like an exciting adventure.
- Continue to read books about starting school: there are many children’s books that gently introduce the idea of starting school. These stories can help your child understand and process their feelings about starting ‘big school’.
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2. Get back into a routine early on
- Set bedtime and wake-up routines: now the summer holidays are coming to an end it’s time to re-establish a bedtime and morning routine that aligns with your child’s school hours. A well-rested child is more likely to enjoy their school day!
- Practice the morning routine: Practice getting dressed, eating breakfast, and leaving the house on time. This will help prevent any surprises or last-minute chaos.
3. Organise yourself the night before
- Lay out their clothes and pack their school bag: prepare everything the night before to avoid a rushed on the first day of school and beyond. Involve your child in packing their bag with essentials like a water bottle, snack, and any school supplies, particularly the night before the first big day.
4. Foster Independence
- Teach basic self-care skills: make sure your child knows how to open their lunchbox (if they have one), zip up their jacket, use the bathroom independently and wash their hands properly.
- Encourage responsibility: Give your child small responsibilities, such as packing their bag or putting on their shoes. This builds confidence and independence.
5. Create a Positive Goodbye Ritual
- Keep goodbyes short and sweet: A quick hug, a kiss and a cheerful “See you later!” can help prevent drawn-out farewells that might increase anxiety.
- Stay calm and positive: let’s face it, It’s an emotional time for us parents too. Children pick up on your emotions. If you’re calm and confident, they’re more likely to feel the same way.
6. Connect with your child’s teacher
- Introduce Yourself: a quick introduction to your child’s teacher can help build a rapport and open the lines of communication.
- Share important information: Inform their teacher about any allergies, preferences, or concerns regarding your child. This ensures they’re prepared to meet your child’s needs.
7. Encourage Open Communication
- Ask open-ended questions: Instead of asking, “Did you have a good day?” try questions like “What was the best part of your day?” or “Who did you play with today?”
- Listen actively: Give your child your full attention when they talk about their day. This will encourage them to share more in the future.
8. Be patient and supportive
- Expect some ups and downs: The first week of school is a BIG adjustment, and it’s normal for children to feel tired, overwhelmed, or emotional. Be patient and provide reassurance.
- Celebrate small wins: Celebrate their achievements, whether it’s making a new friend, learning a new concept, or simply getting through the day with a smile.
9. Maintain a calm and positive environment at home
- Create a relaxing after-school routine: Allow your child some downtime after school to relax and unwind. A familiar routine at home can provide comfort and stability.
- Avoid overloading their schedule: resist the urge to sign them up for too many activities right away. Give them time to adjust to their new school routine. We will only be signing our daughter up for swimming classes during the week and she does gymnastics on a Saturday morning and that will be it for now.
10. Stay Involved and Engaged
- Be involved in school activities: Attend parent-teacher meetings, volunteer when possible, and stay informed about school events. This shows your child that you value their education. I have signed myself up to the school’s PTA (Parent Teacher Association). It’s important for me to be involved in her school as much as possible.
- Encourage a love for learning: show enthusiasm for learning and reading at home. Your positive attitude towards education will influence your child’s outlook.
The first week of primary school is a memorable and transformative time for your child. By being prepared, patient and positive, you can help your child navigate this important milestone with confidence and excitement! Celebrate this new beginning together and remember that it’s just the start of a wonderful journey in learning and growth!
All the best for your child’s first year of primary school.
Author
Natalie is the co-founder and illustrator at Little Scholars Playground. She is passionate about literacy, learning, illustrating, women in STEM and the Montessori practice.